So, now you have left him/her. You feel strong and confident. But still…this is only the beginning.
Of course you’re kinda shook up. You’ve been with you’re partner for ‘a minimum of 2 years’… every day you guys have spent with each other is written on every single cell that runs in your blood. Every breath you take spells out the 3 to 10 letters that make up his/her name.
You feel good…but it’s still…lonely…empty. This is where I come in.
My solution is aimed at people who have been in a relationship which they were not given what they deserve, but settle for less anyways because they fear the process stepping out of THE COMFORT ZONE. The Comfort Zone here is what we all have to step out of if it includes any sort of abuse. You should not be scared, you should grow a pair and experience the next adventures you’re supposed to face.
In the beginning, I start with a theory.
My theory—cuz you gotta have one— predicts that you will experience 3 phases:
1. Hatred
2. Nostalgia
3. Gradual Disappearance
Before I start explaining these three phases [building suspense], I must stress on how important it is for you to understand that there is NO time limit for these. Every person has a different healing process. Some heal fast; others heal slowly [duh – don’t you just love the obvious ‘wise’ statements?].
In addition, make sure that it is YOU who dumped your partner and not the other way around [like it makes a difference—random rules are the best!].
After I explain the three phases in as much detail as I can, we will proceed to the possible solution(s) at the end of this multi-parted post [haha].
Additionally, if you do not know what the 3 phase titles mean, please check them in the dictionary before you keep reading. I warn you they are the essential part of this ‘program’ [speak to your readers like they’re idiots, the world is full of masochists]
Now, let’s start with the phases – please proceed to the next post
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