The Comfort Zone: Hatred, Nostalgia, and Gradual Disappearance. Part (4/4)

I apologize for this next post you are going to read, but this time…it’s not a parody. It might obviously show my anger. But, the amount of loved ones i have seen go through the previous phases is unbelievable. No matter how different these people are. 

The solution to your problem is going to be all a conclusion of MINE. No self help jargon.

Ready?

   By this time, dear reader, if you have read this for anything other than entertainment purposes, then I'm very angry at you. You have just proven to, and to yourself, how desperate you are.

   Here you are being ignorant. That’s all. You are wasting valuable time on finding a so-called soulmate when you should be looking for your next adventure. What’s so beautiful about a relationship is that you DO NOT completely know the person and you seem to find out something new every single day…. whether good or bad. You can’t use the I KNOW HIM/HER card…and that’s the beauty of it.

   If you are a person who thinks that another human being deserves to take control of your life, then you are nothing but another unproductive space and time waster.

Yes, we all fall in love. But what type of love causes you NOTHING but pain. True, all relationships have ups and downs…but really…when you’re always down…then what’s the point?

   What are YOU getting out of this? Are YOU learning anything? Are YOU becoming a better person, a more productive human, while being with your partner? Do you wake up every morning saying “Thank God I have him/her in my life to bring out the best in me”? If not, then I'm sorry. You are nothing but a person who is making excuses to STAY IN YOUR COMFORT ZONE. That’s the worst thing anyone could every do…because that’s where your life stops. You should constantly be looking for things that build your character and your personality, not break them. Also, you should be pursuing lessons from your mistakes instead of repeating them everyday.

   This is to all my loved ones who are beautiful, intelligent and amazing. Knowing their purest spirits has always made me think that they DO NOT deserve any sort of pain. Especially not self inflicted pain. Stop wasting your time. You are not being humble by forgetting yourself in this situation; you are only blindly digging deeper into your own hole.